There was an interesting question on social media today about telling people you are on a fetish site. Full transparency I am and I post there often. I know you are not surprised. I would definitely love any partner I had to tell me if they were there too. Most of my partners in the… Continue reading Transparency
Tag: relationships
It is Just a Fantasy
I was reading a writing today about a fantasy someone had. She had gotten some comments about how good it was, and it was good writing. But one or two made comments about how great it must have been to experience. She let them know it was just a fantasy for now. That is the… Continue reading It is Just a Fantasy
Sharing is Caring
I posted a meme today about it being ok to share yourself online from your best angles. The meme was about pictures and filters but it can also represent the best parts of your personality too. I personally like being authentic and sharing some of the real parts of my life. It’s kind of like… Continue reading Sharing is Caring
Carry Me
Do you remember that time as a kid when you would walk up to your parent and put your arms up and say, "Carry me"? Yeah, me neither. Most of us don't. But I do remember my kids doing it. Sometimes in my mind, I say it to Daddy. It is not his job to… Continue reading Carry Me
Anchoring
I see a trend especially in the poly and kink communities of relationships lasting through that new and getting to know you phase and then slowing dying. Many don’t make it to that year mark. That somehow get past the 4 to 6 month mark but can’t make it further. Sometimes there is a good… Continue reading Anchoring
Lisa Gray 