What does that even mean? I would love for people to focus on the recovery part of that phrase. Have them not assume just because they exist, they are entitled to my energy in some way. It is funny about that giving of energy. In my case, I save it for those who do not… Continue reading Recovering People Pleaser
Tag: relationships
Praise
https://theenlightenedmind622.wordpress.com/2026/03/06/the-trouble-with-most-of-us/#like-31339?page_id=31339 It is true. Especially for those of us with a praise kink. Tell me I am pretty even when I am not. Tell me I am doing great at something even when I am close to failure. The other side of this, though, is that there are many of us who would hear that… Continue reading Praise
Veruca
That is what I am going to call my brat from now on. I had a moment this past week where we was wanting to have a full blown Veruca Salt fit. It is a big mood sometimes. I try to keep her on a short leash I try to calm her down I try to ram… Continue reading Veruca
Familiar
I want the familiarity of a touch. I want the closeness that comes from having them inside you. The kind that leaches out to other things. The conversations that can be about anything and the knowledge of them that can only come from the times they let go.
Everything I wanted
I had a dream. I got everything I wanted. If I could change the way that you see yourself, / You wouldn't wonder why you hear 'they don't deserve you.'" Everything I wanted by Billie Eilish. This song moves me so much. I can’t imagine the state Billie Eilish was in when writing it, but I… Continue reading Everything I wanted
Lisa Gray 