I want a fucking collar for Christmas. Now imagine that sung to that damn hippopotamus song. My kids hated that song but had to sing it for choir. I was looking at kinky, artsy photos this morning and saw some lovely kneeling with pretty collars. That has been a dream of mine for a long… Continue reading I Want
Tag: Power Exchange
It is just a name
But really, it isn't. When someone you connect with gives you praise by calling you a good girl or using a special possessive name for you, it hits just right. I remember someone saying that the bond in power dynamics is something special. There is nothing stronger. He was right, and it doesn't matter what… Continue reading It is just a name
Don’t Make Me Think
That is the answer if you ask me a question or if the question is what is the challenge for me. Thinking about how the right person can keep me from thinking. Help me not overthink with your reassurance. Help turn off the noise inside of me and surrounding me at least for a moment.… Continue reading Don’t Make Me Think
Mine
How many times is she going to write about this, geez. Probably just as much as she writes about herself in the third person. She is kind of a dork. I was thinking about this word again. I was thinking about the times it was said to me, and it was truly meant in that… Continue reading Mine
Question
You shouldn't have to. It should never be a question of what you mean to someone. If it is, then there is no true bond between you. We can go through a period of wondering how we want someone to fit into our lives, and we can make space for all types of connections. But… Continue reading Question
Lisa Gray 