Poly can sometimes be a struggle for me. It is work and work I have to do on my own. I can occasionally ask for help or support but there is no way for anyone to grab the thoughts out of my brain and reframe them. I have to do that work. Add in a… Continue reading Poly is Hard
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Doors
Footfalls echo in the memory / Down the passage which we did not take / Towards the door we never opened / Into the rose-garden. / Time present and time past / Are both perhaps present in time future. T. S. Eliot Watching Dark Matter and this quote came up. The story revolves around a cube… Continue reading Doors
Red Flags, Green, Flags, Yellow Flags, Oh My.
https://www.facebook.com/photo?fbid=384852331138864&set=a.101330689491031 I saw this post on Facebook and it made me think about the differences between me and my partner when it comes to dating and building relationships. My partner is very much a person who assumes good intent and will meet people where they are and hope they have a growth mindset. I have… Continue reading Red Flags, Green, Flags, Yellow Flags, Oh My.
New Relationship Energy vs Old Relationship Energy
Recently I had a card reading and asked about love. The cards revealed some challenges ahead and a lot had to do with the effort I was putting into it. This has me thinking of relationships and the energy and effort that you put into them. For a long time, I was feeling this new… Continue reading New Relationship Energy vs Old Relationship Energy
Welcome to My World
After years of dreaming I could write, I finally put pen to paper (or fingertips to keyboard) and self-published my first book. I am excited to chronicle my life and experiences in the world of poly and kink. I have always been an observer and realized it is finally time to live the life I… Continue reading Welcome to My World
Lisa Gray 