They say opposites attract, but partners can be attracted to opposites. One observation I have being poly is the trend of my partners to pick other partners that are the polar opposite of me. I have light hair, freckles, and am pretty pail. Many of my metas have been very tan with dark hair and… Continue reading Polar Opposites
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Protest Behavior
Protest Behavior What the heck is that? To be honest, I am not 100% sure. I did not read the whole book. But if you are interested in attachment theory, check out Attached by Levine (Polysecure is another popular title to find.) There are also tons of online quizzes, and your attachment style is based… Continue reading Protest Behavior
Is it a Flag?
I have seen a lot of good writing lately detailing what some red flags and green flags might be for doms and subs. There are plenty on the list to look out for as far as red flags, especially for new subs to watch out for. Even Glamour has weighed in (although there is not… Continue reading Is it a Flag?
Poly is Hard
Poly can sometimes be a struggle for me. It is work and work I have to do on my own. I can occasionally ask for help or support but there is no way for anyone to grab the thoughts out of my brain and reframe them. I have to do that work. Add in a… Continue reading Poly is Hard
New Relationship Energy vs Old Relationship Energy
Recently I had a card reading and asked about love. The cards revealed some challenges ahead and a lot had to do with the effort I was putting into it. This has me thinking of relationships and the energy and effort that you put into them. For a long time, I was feeling this new… Continue reading New Relationship Energy vs Old Relationship Energy
Lisa Gray 