I was reminded yesterday about my feelings on the struggle. There are all types of struggles, and I wrote about how we sometimes devalue the act of struggling. What if I rephrase and reframe that, though? Maybe if I use the word suffer, my brain can get the hit that I need. Maybe I can… Continue reading The Struggle
Tag: Masochism
Pleasure in Sadness
Sitting in an emotion masochism class this morning. There is so much here that is relatable. I love the community I find online that offers space for growth and learning. But it is nice too to get to listen to people who help validate your experiences or help you put a name to things. I… Continue reading Pleasure in Sadness
Mistakes
How do you deal with them? For the last few days, I have been thinking about a mistake I made. I took ownership of it, but it has created guilt in my mind that has lingered a bit. This is mostly because I'm afraid it changed the trajectory of a relationship. We were moving in… Continue reading Mistakes
Lisa Gray 