Protest Behavior What the heck is that? To be honest, I am not 100% sure. I did not read the whole book. But if you are interested in attachment theory, check out Attached by Levine (Polysecure is another popular title to find.) There are also tons of online quizzes, and your attachment style is based… Continue reading Protest Behavior
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Is it a Flag?
I have seen a lot of good writing lately detailing what some red flags and green flags might be for doms and subs. There are plenty on the list to look out for as far as red flags, especially for new subs to watch out for. Even Glamour has weighed in (although there is not… Continue reading Is it a Flag?
Poly is Hard
Poly can sometimes be a struggle for me. It is work and work I have to do on my own. I can occasionally ask for help or support but there is no way for anyone to grab the thoughts out of my brain and reframe them. I have to do that work. Add in a… Continue reading Poly is Hard
I Want to Say I Love You
But I don't. What is holding me back? Do I even know you? You show such kindness to me and to others, but do you show any other part of yourself? What are you hiding? Can I trust you? Do I want to know all the parts of you that are there just under the… Continue reading I Want to Say I Love You
Doors
Footfalls echo in the memory / Down the passage which we did not take / Towards the door we never opened / Into the rose-garden. / Time present and time past / Are both perhaps present in time future. T. S. Eliot Watching Dark Matter and this quote came up. The story revolves around a cube… Continue reading Doors
Lisa Gray 