Watching a Marilyn movie. As a child, I had a certain attraction to her. It wasn't just her looks but her aura. I am always curious what would have happened to her had she been able to live longer. I felt like she was passed on from one man to the next, looking for something… Continue reading My Heart Belongs to Daddy
Tag: love
My life in song lyrics and movie quotes
I speak in song lyrics and movie quotes a lot. Today, I was thinking about crazy, stupid love (not the movie, just the love). It made me think about this quote from Jason Lee playing Brodie in Mallrats. I'm tired of this whole thing! You're both [stupid] for each other! Forget about the shit that… Continue reading My life in song lyrics and movie quotes
Anchoring
I see a trend especially in the poly and kink communities of relationships lasting through that new and getting to know you phase and then slowing dying. Many don’t make it to that year mark. That somehow get past the 4 to 6 month mark but can’t make it further. Sometimes there is a good… Continue reading Anchoring
Repeating Patterns
I read something the other day about how we repeat what we know. It is so very common for those with trauma to look at patterns and repeat the mistakes of the past. When you fall in love with someone, you worry you are alone in that, especially if you have had very little love… Continue reading Repeating Patterns
It’s Father’s Day
Sitting on a patio, sipping a whiskey drink, eating shrimp, and listening to a one man band tell me not to worry about a thing. I guess I won’t. For some of us, Father’s Day is hard, but I have had all kinds of good daddy’s over the years to fill that void and erase… Continue reading It’s Father’s Day
Lisa Gray 