I was reading a writing today about a fantasy someone had. She had gotten some comments about how good it was, and it was good writing. But one or two made comments about how great it must have been to experience. She let them know it was just a fantasy for now. That is the… Continue reading It is Just a Fantasy
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How long is too long to wait?
I sit here quietly just as I am told. I am in the position. On my knees. There is stillness here. There is a safe space for me here. The walls are around me, protecting me. The loudness from the outside is muted. It can't get to me here. So I sit and wait patiently.… Continue reading How long is too long to wait?
Sharing is Caring
I posted a meme today about it being ok to share yourself online from your best angles. The meme was about pictures and filters but it can also represent the best parts of your personality too. I personally like being authentic and sharing some of the real parts of my life. It’s kind of like… Continue reading Sharing is Caring
My life in song lyrics and movie quotes
I speak in song lyrics and movie quotes a lot. Today, I was thinking about crazy, stupid love (not the movie, just the love). It made me think about this quote from Jason Lee playing Brodie in Mallrats. I'm tired of this whole thing! You're both [stupid] for each other! Forget about the shit that… Continue reading My life in song lyrics and movie quotes
Anchoring
I see a trend especially in the poly and kink communities of relationships lasting through that new and getting to know you phase and then slowing dying. Many don’t make it to that year mark. That somehow get past the 4 to 6 month mark but can’t make it further. Sometimes there is a good… Continue reading Anchoring
Lisa Gray 