I posted a meme today about it being ok to share yourself online from your best angles. The meme was about pictures and filters but it can also represent the best parts of your personality too. I personally like being authentic and sharing some of the real parts of my life. It’s kind of like… Continue reading Sharing is Caring
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My life in song lyrics and movie quotes
I speak in song lyrics and movie quotes a lot. Today, I was thinking about crazy, stupid love (not the movie, just the love). It made me think about this quote from Jason Lee playing Brodie in Mallrats. I'm tired of this whole thing! You're both [stupid] for each other! Forget about the shit that… Continue reading My life in song lyrics and movie quotes
Anchoring
I see a trend especially in the poly and kink communities of relationships lasting through that new and getting to know you phase and then slowing dying. Many don’t make it to that year mark. That somehow get past the 4 to 6 month mark but can’t make it further. Sometimes there is a good… Continue reading Anchoring
Repeating Patterns
I read something the other day about how we repeat what we know. It is so very common for those with trauma to look at patterns and repeat the mistakes of the past. When you fall in love with someone, you worry you are alone in that, especially if you have had very little love… Continue reading Repeating Patterns
I just can’t with you
Do you ever have that feeling of frustration? It usually is surrounded by thoughts of someone in particular. I woke up frustrated, dreaming about them. This has been something recurring. It is a problem I have when I have been close to someone but not as close as I would like to be. Seeing something… Continue reading I just can’t with you
Lisa Gray 