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Lisa Gray

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Don’t Make Me Think

December 7, 2025 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

That is the answer if you ask me a question or if the question is what is the challenge for me. Thinking about how the right person can keep me from thinking. Help me not overthink with your reassurance. Help turn off the noise inside of me and surrounding me at least for a moment.… Continue reading Don’t Make Me Think

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Question

December 4, 2025December 3, 2025 Lisa Gray1 Comment

You shouldn't have to. It should never be a question of what you mean to someone. If it is, then there is no true bond between you. We can go through a period of wondering how we want someone to fit into our lives, and we can make space for all types of connections. But… Continue reading Question

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Transitions

December 3, 2025 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

I have been hit by transitions a lot lately in my personal life and at work. It is hard sometimes, as you get older, to know that there are not too many more milestones left. I am still like a child, where I want that next phase now, but I'm not sure what happens after… Continue reading Transitions

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Fishnets

December 2, 2025 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

Just the right amount of clothing can draw the eye more than bare skin. Its about context.

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Reassurance and Regulation

December 1, 2025 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

I have a hard time sometimes with distinguishing the line between asking for reassurance and regulating emotions. We sometimes get into that position where we want to blame people for our own feelings. Maybe their actions triggered feelings, but the feelings are ours to manage either by processing or figuring out better boundaries, which are… Continue reading Reassurance and Regulation

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