Just the right amount of clothing can draw the eye more than bare skin. Its about context.
Tag: life
Reassurance and Regulation
I have a hard time sometimes with distinguishing the line between asking for reassurance and regulating emotions. We sometimes get into that position where we want to blame people for our own feelings. Maybe their actions triggered feelings, but the feelings are ours to manage either by processing or figuring out better boundaries, which are… Continue reading Reassurance and Regulation
You will Figure it Out
It’s going to be ok, dear. You’re a bright girl. You’ll figure it out. (Welcome to Derry) I know I will, but sometimes I just want to wallow in the fact that there is something I now have to figure out on my own. And I am scared, honestly, that I will get too used… Continue reading You will Figure it Out
Attention
I am on a roll here with reflecting today. I need to work through some things. I read something last night that was a bit triggering and reminded me of some dark times. I got out of those dark times. I have been away from that headspace for a long time, but I can see… Continue reading Attention
Friendship
Today is the birthday of an online friend of mine, and it has made me think about the different types of connections we have with people. I can't lie and say I don't think about sex and romance almost on a daily basis, but there are some types of connections that can transcend that. Some… Continue reading Friendship
Lisa Gray 