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Fear

March 5, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

Right on the edge of fear was where trust could grow." — Unknown Fear is a tool. It takes us somewhere further. It expands our mind. Gives us a place to move to and helps us see how far we can surrender, how powerful we are, what we are made of. We can look at… Continue reading Fear

Reflections

Trauma Responds to Patterns

February 14, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

I just read a really good article about trauma-informed care in D/s and kink. It made me recognize that sometimes it is not just in kink but in any type of relationship. One of the statements that stood out to me was that trauma doesn’t respond to reassurance but to patterns. My mind has always… Continue reading Trauma Responds to Patterns

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