I see a trend especially in the poly and kink communities of relationships lasting through that new and getting to know you phase and then slowing dying. Many don’t make it to that year mark. That somehow get past the 4 to 6 month mark but can’t make it further. Sometimes there is a good… Continue reading Anchoring
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My Plus One
I had an interesting conversation at work yesterday about being in charge of our own happiness and emotions and needs. I agree that feelings are ours to deal with but that doesn’t mean others can’t have compassion and empathy. There is a war in my brain about needs. On one hand we are in charge… Continue reading My Plus One
Seeing you Smile
There is nothing I want more than to make people smile. This morning I read a few words that put a smile on my face and I realized I like it when I smile too. Life is sometimes stressful but in the last 6 months when things have been thrown at me that have the… Continue reading Seeing you Smile
Sleep
Having a hard time sleeping. I want to be awake when he is awake. I want to be able to talk to him about his day. I want to have deep conversations about our future. He makes me want things. But sometimes it is just a need to be awake when he is awake. wanting… Continue reading Sleep
Words
I love words. I love using them and stringing them together. I want them to have an impact on people. But I am ready to show with actions. I want to be able to prove my love and surrender through my body not just my mind.
Lisa Gray 