I am not afraid to be alone. Lots of times I prefer it.When I make connections or choose partners and stay with them, it is because I see value in adding them to my life. I sometimes identify as a toy or sub, but I do not choose that type of connection with just anyone.… Continue reading Alone
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When you Tell me to
Sometimes I do things all on my own. I am a big girl and can take care of myself. But it is so much nicer when you tell me to. I could wake up and get dressed all by myself, but sometimes it is nicer when I tell you good morning and that I am… Continue reading When you Tell me to
The Role of Responsive Desire in Relationships
I have been thinking about this word recently. It has several different meanings depending on what context you are in. You can be talking about responsive love or sex where you can be responsive to meeting your partner's romantic or sexual needs. But I have been thinking of it in another way. You have spontaneous… Continue reading The Role of Responsive Desire in Relationships
They Came at Night
Daytime was filled with the mundane. Decisions to make for myself and others. It was exhausting and overwhelming. All I wanted was time to pass quickly. I wanted my day to end, but I wanted this time to end where my days and nights were like two separate worlds. The day was the real world… Continue reading They Came at Night
My Emotional Masochism
I hate you I love you Gnash Feeling used, but I'mStill missing you and I can'tSee the end of thisJust wanna feel your kiss against my lipsAnd now all this time is passing byBut I still can't seem to tell you whyIt hurts me every time I see youRealize how much I need you I… Continue reading My Emotional Masochism
Lisa Gray 