I have seen a lot of good writing lately detailing what some red flags and green flags might be for doms and subs. There are plenty on the list to look out for as far as red flags, especially for new subs to watch out for. Even Glamour has weighed in (although there is not… Continue reading Is it a Flag?
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Poly is Hard
Poly can sometimes be a struggle for me. It is work and work I have to do on my own. I can occasionally ask for help or support but there is no way for anyone to grab the thoughts out of my brain and reframe them. I have to do that work. Add in a… Continue reading Poly is Hard
I wish you could see what I feel
I was saying this to someone thinking about how hard it is in long-distance relationships when someone is affecting you physically but can't see or feel that effect they have on you. But playing around with that line, I also started thinking about all the ways someone makes me feel emotionally and how they do… Continue reading I wish you could see what I feel
Her pleasure is His pleasure
"She had given him pleasure, and nothing could please her more than that." Picture Perfect Cowboy Tiffany Reisz This is a quote pulled from one of my profiles. It really is one of the few things that encapsulates my submission and my thoughts about kink and BDSM. This is the way I submit. I sometimes… Continue reading Her pleasure is His pleasure
Balancing Submission: Navigating Boundaries and Growth
I received a question through my NGL post and I thought it was a great question to reflect on and write about. In terms of your role as submissive, what is the best piece of advice you would give to your younger self? What would I tell My Younger Self? This is a great question, and I… Continue reading Balancing Submission: Navigating Boundaries and Growth
Lisa Gray 