I have been thinking about this word recently. It has several different meanings depending on what context you are in. You can be talking about responsive love or sex where you can be responsive to meeting your partner's romantic or sexual needs. But I have been thinking of it in another way. You have spontaneous… Continue reading The Role of Responsive Desire in Relationships
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They Came at Night
Daytime was filled with the mundane. Decisions to make for myself and others. It was exhausting and overwhelming. All I wanted was time to pass quickly. I wanted my day to end, but I wanted this time to end where my days and nights were like two separate worlds. The day was the real world… Continue reading They Came at Night
My Emotional Masochism
I hate you I love you Gnash Feeling used, but I'mStill missing you and I can'tSee the end of thisJust wanna feel your kiss against my lipsAnd now all this time is passing byBut I still can't seem to tell you whyIt hurts me every time I see youRealize how much I need you I… Continue reading My Emotional Masochism
It’s Not a Competition
“It's not your job to fight off people competing for your partner's affection. It's your partner's job to consistently show you, and the world, that there is no competition.” I always like to remind myself that my relationship with my partner is just between us. If I have a problem with my relationship it is up to… Continue reading It’s Not a Competition
Under their Spell
I think I must be under some kind of spell but it only feels temporary. I feel myself drowning in them, forgetting who I am other than that feeling of being theirs. But then something happens. They disappear, and I am at once flung to the surface reminding me of where I am. I can… Continue reading Under their Spell
Lisa Gray 