Promise me you will reach out to find me. Promise me you will catch me. Promise me when you break me, you will put me back together. Promise me you will always want to touch me. Promise me you can handle my brat and the needy little inside me. Promise me you will recognize my… Continue reading Promise Me
Anchoring
I see a trend especially in the poly and kink communities of relationships lasting through that new and getting to know you phase and then slowing dying. Many don’t make it to that year mark. That somehow get past the 4 to 6 month mark but can’t make it further. Sometimes there is a good… Continue reading Anchoring
Repeating Patterns
I read something the other day about how we repeat what we know. It is so very common for those with trauma to look at patterns and repeat the mistakes of the past. When you fall in love with someone, you worry you are alone in that, especially if you have had very little love… Continue reading Repeating Patterns
Woods and Intent
Sometimes I am in a mood. That mood is usually primal, and it makes me want that person who wants me. They need to want me enough to chase me. I want that chase both physically and metaphorically. Take me to the woods, make me run. Grab me and make me see you and all… Continue reading Woods and Intent
It’s Father’s Day
Sitting on a patio, sipping a whiskey drink, eating shrimp, and listening to a one man band tell me not to worry about a thing. I guess I won’t. For some of us, Father’s Day is hard, but I have had all kinds of good daddy’s over the years to fill that void and erase… Continue reading It’s Father’s Day
Lisa Gray 