I just finished reading a post about kink being "safe enough," especially for those with PTSD, ADHD, or other types of neurodivergencies. I was playing around in my head this week with my emotional masochism and this read made it more intersting. I have never been diagnosed with anything, but I see patterns in me… Continue reading Fear
Intimacy
I was thinking about intimacy and how you build it. Some of it is sharing your life with someone, including all the little details. I am not always good at that. Today I was thinking of one little quirk, my food habits. My Full Fridge This is as full as my fridge has been in… Continue reading Intimacy
When he looks
I just read a caption where a woman talks about loving when her partner looks. I love the idea of that. I would love it if he would look. Right now, I am in that state where no one is looking. I know that is not completely true, but it is not the same when… Continue reading When he looks
Grace and Appreciation
This was the subject of an email from a female submission newsletter I get. I was thinking about that word grace especially. So many times, I see the end of dynamics play out on social media and in my community. It hurts sometimes to see a great connection end, and both parties struggle with how… Continue reading Grace and Appreciation
Need
(random things on my mind today) I have a need to be a good girl today. I have a need to be used by a certain person as a fucktoy but also as a friend. I have a need to understand the truth of certain things. I have a need to know their feelings. I… Continue reading Need
Lisa Gray 