I was reading a post today by Enhanced Mind. (Not on his blog yet) about how we stay put. It is that point not of retreat or pulling back, but just waiting in place. I needed to hear this today. Not just for me, but what if I need to have more empathy for my… Continue reading Staying Put
The Summoning
Watching Miller’s Girl again. It is so quotable. The writing is so sophisticated. The girl just said something about love and how it comes. Is it inevitable or a summoning. I have thought and used that word inevitable. But somehow summoning fits so well. I feel you sometimes and that pull. We have talked about… Continue reading The Summoning
Fear
I just finished reading a post about kink being "safe enough," especially for those with PTSD, ADHD, or other types of neurodivergencies. I was playing around in my head this week with my emotional masochism and this read made it more intersting. I have never been diagnosed with anything, but I see patterns in me… Continue reading Fear
Intimacy
I was thinking about intimacy and how you build it. Some of it is sharing your life with someone, including all the little details. I am not always good at that. Today I was thinking of one little quirk, my food habits. My Full Fridge This is as full as my fridge has been in… Continue reading Intimacy
When he looks
I just read a caption where a woman talks about loving when her partner looks. I love the idea of that. I would love it if he would look. Right now, I am in that state where no one is looking. I know that is not completely true, but it is not the same when… Continue reading When he looks
Lisa Gray 