Skip to content
Me and the sun shining

Lisa Gray

writer, poly kinster, submissive

  • Home
  • About
  • Published Works
  • Buy Me a Coffee
Reflections

Where do you want to be?

May 30, 2026May 30, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

This is such a popular question when giving interviews or going on retreats for work. Do you practice thinking about this? What are the things you always say, and what are the things you don't? I haven't really worked on my endgame. I know I have places I want to see. Places that don't match… Continue reading Where do you want to be?

Reflections

Scared

May 29, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

I just read a meme that basically boils down to your not scared of love, you are scared of love leaving you. I am afraid of that. I have that feeling of wanting my heart to be safe in his hands. I want that to be true so bad but all I have are his… Continue reading Scared

Reflections

Casual

May 29, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

I just read a title that says there is a cost to casual sex. I didn't read it before coming here to think on it. Maybe I will. I have been in a position recently where my body is not craving sex as much. I am getting older, and hormones are doing strange things. I… Continue reading Casual

Writings

Understanding the Silence

May 28, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

I know you can be quiet so that you can hear, but I don’t want silence. I want your words. I want you to unravel before me. I want to see your thoughts spill out of that mouth of yours before I take it and use it. You know I will let you use me,… Continue reading Understanding the Silence

Writings

Wait And Hope

May 28, 2026 Lisa GrayLeave a comment

“There is neither happiness nor misery in the world; there is only the comparison of one state with another. He who has felt the deepest grief is … Wait And Hope That is really all we can do. Wait and hope. Keep dreaming. Keep changing and growing and learning. Maybe you will find out what… Continue reading Wait And Hope

Posts navigation

Older posts
Newer posts
  • Erotic Writing
  • Kinky Thoughts
  • Poly and Kinky
  • Published Books
  • Reflections
  • Roles and Identities in Kink
  • Uncategorized
  • Writings
Follow Lisa Gray on WordPress.com
DOnateSubmitting form
Advertisements
Follow Lisa Gray on WordPress.com
Create a website or blog at WordPress.com
Privacy & Cookies: This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this website, you agree to their use.
To find out more, including how to control cookies, see here: Cookie Policy
  • Subscribe Subscribed
    • Lisa Gray
    • Join 47 other subscribers
    • Already have a WordPress.com account? Log in now.
    • Lisa Gray
    • Subscribe Subscribed
    • Sign up
    • Log in
    • Report this content
    • View site in Reader
    • Manage subscriptions
    • Collapse this bar

Loading Comments...