You know I am bendy, very flexible, adaptable even. I can shape myself around people and things. But sometimes I struggle being in a position and getting stuck. I sometimes feel like Elmyra, “I'll love them, and hug them, and hold them forever!” I want that forever but some habits need to break. Some things… Continue reading Bendy
Category: Reflections
The Million Dollar Question.
I have my AMA's turned on on Fet, and someone asked me whether I was poly and had play partners. If you have been following me here, you will know that is pretty complicated to answer. I am technically single for the first time. I have been living a poly lifestyle for years, though, and… Continue reading The Million Dollar Question.
At Arm’s Length
Flawed and Fractured in just the right ways.
Invisible
Some days more than others, I feel invisible. I do it to myself sometimes. I hide on purpose. I know there are random people out there who care for me and think of me, but it can be hard to remember that in the moment. Sometimes you just want to be seen by someone in… Continue reading Invisible
Saying No
Sometimes saying no is so much harder than saying yes. I have been saying no a lot lately. But I was talking to a friend a few weeks ago, warning others that I might say no a lot, but appreciate being asked. He said something that stuck with me, and I will try not to… Continue reading Saying No
Lisa Gray 