I was thinking about something the other day. We get hit by people all the time who want to come into our lives for a small time and touch us in very specific ways. When we meet someone online it is easy to find people that just do not match with us in practical ways.… Continue reading Let’s Get Messy
Category: Poly and Kinky
Crumbs
I have experienced breadcrumbing in relationships. What is it in them that can't offer more than crumbs? Why do they not have the ability to break bread with you? Those little crumbs they leave can be so tempting. I sometimes struggle with latching on to those crumbs, wanting to eat from them piece by piece,… Continue reading Crumbs
Fairytale
When you want the fairytale but are unsure how to get it. When you want him but are not sure how to be his. When you want the story to start now but know it can't What do you do? How do you pass the time while you wait?
“Life is Fragile”
The universe is trying to tell me something today. I have run across this message several times on the heels of an emotional rollercoaster of a ride the last few weeks. Today, I felt a head pat when no one was around me, which spurred me to get moving. Then, I had a conversation with… Continue reading “Life is Fragile”
Dormant
"How do I end this, how do I escape our relationship", but you tell me "You can't. Even when you owe me nothing, and I owe you nothing it will not be over, our relationship will be dormant as I wait for you, should you ever wish to come back to me." This was part… Continue reading Dormant
Lisa Gray 