I see a trend especially in the poly and kink communities of relationships lasting through that new and getting to know you phase and then slowing dying. Many don’t make it to that year mark. That somehow get past the 4 to 6 month mark but can’t make it further. Sometimes there is a good… Continue reading Anchoring
Category: Poly and Kinky
Repeating Patterns
I read something the other day about how we repeat what we know. It is so very common for those with trauma to look at patterns and repeat the mistakes of the past. When you fall in love with someone, you worry you are alone in that, especially if you have had very little love… Continue reading Repeating Patterns
It’s Father’s Day
Sitting on a patio, sipping a whiskey drink, eating shrimp, and listening to a one man band tell me not to worry about a thing. I guess I won’t. For some of us, Father’s Day is hard, but I have had all kinds of good daddy’s over the years to fill that void and erase… Continue reading It’s Father’s Day
I just can’t with you
Do you ever have that feeling of frustration? It usually is surrounded by thoughts of someone in particular. I woke up frustrated, dreaming about them. This has been something recurring. It is a problem I have when I have been close to someone but not as close as I would like to be. Seeing something… Continue reading I just can’t with you
Music is Life
Pleasure's real or is it fantasy / Real to real is living rarity / People stop and stare at me / We just walk on by / We just keep on dreaming / Feet, feet, walking a two mile / Meet, meet, meet me at the turnstile / I never met him / I'll never… Continue reading Music is Life
Lisa Gray 