Sitting in the dentist office and I have the bib but they left me alone with my thoughts and a very good soundtrack going in the office. An interesting combination. Of course, the song now is Chasing Cars. It has been in my mind a lot lately. I want to forget the world around me.… Continue reading Take Care of You
Category: Poly and Kinky
Be A Free Thinker
“Be a free thinker and don’t accept everything you hear as truth. Be critical and evaluate what you believe in.” -Aristotle Be A Free Thinker More important now than it has ever been.
Alignment
What is yours cannot be lost. Timing isn't a mistake, it is about alignment - from a caed reading today But can't I just have it now? Can you not show me the way to it? Can I not get there, speedracer-style? I have a feeling I am being taught a lesson of some kind.… Continue reading Alignment
Smile
I have this song playing in my head this morning, and I don't know why. I first heard it on My Girl 2. Smile though your heart is aching / Smile even though it's breaking / When there are clouds in the sky, you'll get by It reminds me of the old adage, fake it… Continue reading Smile
Trauma Responds to Patterns
I just read a really good article about trauma-informed care in D/s and kink. It made me recognize that sometimes it is not just in kink but in any type of relationship. One of the statements that stood out to me was that trauma doesn’t respond to reassurance but to patterns. My mind has always… Continue reading Trauma Responds to Patterns
Lisa Gray 