http://justanotherblahblahblahblog.com/2025/09/27/the-ghost-in-the-mirror-how-you-haunt-yourself-through-others/ This was such a good read for me. I have struggled in the past with projecting someone onto others, and I definitely feel someone's past may have also affected our future. I have always prided myself on being non-judgey, but I do judge myself and have judged others' decisions. Still trying my best and… Continue reading The Mirror
Category: Poly and Kinky
It’s Ghosties Season
And there is nothing spookier than talking with someone for a long time and having them disappear. It happens a lot. A friend brought it up the other day because it seems to happen more often on these online social media sites. I think there is an issue with the discrepancies of why people are… Continue reading It’s Ghosties Season
Wow She’s Gorgeous
Do you ever hear yourself say those lines as a woman. You know those times when you are saying that but you really mean, Yeah, she would be perfect for him. He deserves someone like her, not me. Thats not me. I can't be like her. I sometimes make those judgements and it is not… Continue reading Wow She’s Gorgeous
Saved Trips
I keep getting this email about a saved trip I had planned for November. Prices are holding steady, but I guess I am not. It was one of those trips I never really thought about taking until it became the only trip I wanted to take. Now I am forced to move on to something… Continue reading Saved Trips
Can you Imagine It
Maybe the slow burn could last longer than the all consuming fire.
Lisa Gray 