Today is the birthday of an online friend of mine, and it has made me think about the different types of connections we have with people. I can't lie and say I don't think about sex and romance almost on a daily basis, but there are some types of connections that can transcend that. Some… Continue reading Friendship
Category: Poly and Kinky
Thankful
On today’s episode, we are supposed to feel thankful. I have several roofs available to cover me. There is so much food in front of me even though my stomach can’t even eat my share. I have kids and family that are still alive and mostly gathered together. But still unsettled, still wanting, still struggling… Continue reading Thankful
Holding Back
I have been looking at an email that regularly comes through my inbox. I don't always open them, but they are cards picked for me. Today was a hint at freedom. There is something nice about that word, but at the same time, I wonder what I am being freed from. I may not like… Continue reading Holding Back
Happy Polyamory Day
Love is love and all that no matter how you practice it. Still questioning myself and won’t really matter until it does. So much of it went wrong but some felt right too especially in the moments. I like the idea of individuals getting to decide for themselves how they want to relate to each… Continue reading Happy Polyamory Day
Monsters
“He who fights with monsters might take care lest he thereby become a monster. And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you.” ― Friedrich Nietzsche, Beyond Good and Evil What type of monster exactly? Maybe it would be worth it. I feel like this is very similar to garbage in,… Continue reading Monsters
Lisa Gray 