I love the idea of this type of play. The idea that I can be used anytime, anywhere by my partner feels naughty and delicious. I think of it as part of a power exchange dynamic. There are other ways to look at this term, but anywhere/anytime is the basic meaning most give it. I like… Continue reading Free Use
Category: Kinky Thoughts
Random Facts About Me
A lot of what I like in kink besides the sex parts is power exchange. Part of this is the way my sister and I dealt with childhood trauma. She became mean and angry and fought back and I used her as a protector (always the shy one). I wouldn’t necessarily say I was a… Continue reading Random Facts About Me
Bruised
I have started to post pictures online more frequently. When I first started on a certain social media site, I was not very active at all. A question came through today that made me think about why. A lot of that time in the beginning was just taking everything in. It can be overwhelming. It… Continue reading Bruised
Vampires
It is October 1st. This is the time I get serious about Halloween. I sometimes lose steam by the time the day of trick or treating is upon us. However, I love filling my life with spooky things this time of year. I always hope for the type of connections that indulge me in this.… Continue reading Vampires
Oops, you Missed a Step
I have been reflecting on dynamics lately. I had a writing prompt for a story yesterday, The Contract. Technically I have never had a contract. Nothing in writing that I could hold onto or look back on. I have had a few dynamics, though, and a few situationships. I find it interesting that this step… Continue reading Oops, you Missed a Step
Lisa Gray 