Have you ever read Wuthering Heights? I have, a few times. I generally love anything Brontë and anything Austin. Recently, my book club read Pride and Prejudice. I may have already mentioned that I love it. I love Darcy and all the characters he has influenced in the romance genre. There are a lot. I… Continue reading Book Club
Author: Lisa Gray
Former librarian turned wannabe author. Writing on my perspectives as a poly kinkster and submissive.
Alignment
What is yours cannot be lost. Timing isn't a mistake, it is about alignment - from a caed reading today But can't I just have it now? Can you not show me the way to it? Can I not get there, speedracer-style? I have a feeling I am being taught a lesson of some kind.… Continue reading Alignment
Rituals
I had a question come in today about rituals. Rituals are a big part of D/s but this was more about what rituals in your life do you have that you would feel weird if you missed it. Coffee and protein are the one thing I think of right away. But this past year, I… Continue reading Rituals
Smile
I have this song playing in my head this morning, and I don't know why. I first heard it on My Girl 2. Smile though your heart is aching / Smile even though it's breaking / When there are clouds in the sky, you'll get by It reminds me of the old adage, fake it… Continue reading Smile
Trauma Responds to Patterns
I just read a really good article about trauma-informed care in D/s and kink. It made me recognize that sometimes it is not just in kink but in any type of relationship. One of the statements that stood out to me was that trauma doesn’t respond to reassurance but to patterns. My mind has always… Continue reading Trauma Responds to Patterns
Lisa Gray 