I just read a really good article about trauma-informed care in D/s and kink. It made me recognize that sometimes it is not just in kink but in any type of relationship. One of the statements that stood out to me was that trauma doesn’t respond to reassurance but to patterns. My mind has always… Continue reading Trauma Responds to Patterns
Author: Lisa Gray
Former librarian turned wannabe author. Writing on my perspectives as a poly kinkster and submissive.
Down with Love
Do you ever notice that it is the ones who protest so hard about something that want it the most? People who say love is meaningless. Maybe they want it more than anything. I am trying to decide whether it is better to just love myself and not worry about what others love. They can… Continue reading Down with Love
Valentine
Happy Valentine's Day
Surrender
I surrender to that place in your story.
Something Special
Be that something special.
Lisa Gray 