Yes, I am sure. It is interesting to think about all the things I can see now. These things could have helped me develop my kinkier side when I was younger. It doesn't have to be impact that makes you kinky (I do love impact with certain people). You do not have to be a… Continue reading Are you Sure You are Kinky?
Author: Lisa Gray
Former librarian turned wannabe author. Writing on my perspectives as a poly kinkster and submissive.
The Chase
One of those aspects of Primal play in kink is the idea of the chase. I have a fantasy of being out in the woods and being hunted by someone. Many times you will see people identify as a prey or a predator. You have likely guessed correctly that I see myself as a prey.… Continue reading The Chase
Let’s Go for a Walk
I have other writings I am working on. I like playing around with short story ideas. I am hoping to publish another collection at some point. Here is a peek at something that may get added to that. I love my neighborhood. It has a lot of great outdoor spaces for walking and hiking. There… Continue reading Let’s Go for a Walk
Heartbreak, Emotional Masochism, Compersion
Yes, all of these things are related for me. I have this toxic trait of martyrdom that plays into my emotional masochism. I sometimes break my own heart thinking that others do not want to be with me or set me as any type of priority in their lives. I have partners and metas and… Continue reading Heartbreak, Emotional Masochism, Compersion
Love is Blind
It is Friday night and I am living my best life at home hiding in my room and binging trash tv. Yes, this is what my kinky life is like. Lots of time prioritizing my peace mixed with play time and sexy times flirting with other people. Some weeks, I have way too much fun… Continue reading Love is Blind
Lisa Gray 