Orgasms

Yes, I am going there. I was in a bit of a slump as far as that went. Almost a month. Today I took care of that.

I have had several strangers online ask me about it. It is a common question, “How long has it been since you came?” or Have you come yet today?”

I used to laugh a bit at this. For a time, I was married, I had kinky friends with benefits, and several online dynamics over the years. I was having orgasms very frequently, most days. Not always, though.

Even in the past few years, when I have struggled with breakups, separations, and people disappearing, I have still kept to normal routines.

Some people have asked what it is that makes me want to do it, what I think of. Here is where the problem has come recently. I get so focused on people and their faces that when I am mad at them, when they leave me, or when I have some kind of feeling for them, I may not be able to picture their face or their voice in a sexy way. This can make it more difficult.

Life can also get in the way. As we get older, hormones change, and we take on more life responsibilities, making it harder to get in the game. I am not worried, though. I know these things come and go. And the weird thing is, there’s usually something around the corner to help.