The Hardship of Long Distance

I was reading a few stories this morning mostly about people that are longing or looking forward to that moment of curlying up with their partner.

This is the biggest tease for someone who is in a long distance realtionship. When you latch on and connect to someone far away, you lose hope fast of ever getting those special moments.

And those moments are something I really crave. Touching is so important to me especially when I want to feel dominated. I want to feel small in their care. I want to be wrapped in their arms just as much as I want a hand on my throat or pinning down my arms.

And it is not just those physical things either for me. It is about more than sex. It is about feeling like you are a part of someone’s life. It is about feeling more secure when you know their routines and can feel part of them. When they leave and you know they are coming back. When silence for a few days isn’t a big deal beacuse you are aware of what they are doing and why they can’t touch base.