Roles and Identities in Kink

The Perfect Submissive

Ok. This title is total clickbait. The perfect submissive doesn’t exist. The reason, there is no submissive or no Daddy or Dom or Master. We are all humans, and sometimes we throw titles and honorifics on ourselves to create meaning in our lives or to play a role.

Sometimes it can be hard to separate that out. I know I am a total human with so many flaws, but I like to think I am ok at empathy, understanding, and kindness.

I don’t want to use someone for the role they can play. I want to love someone for the person they are.

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