I was thinking about that massage again. I need another one. One of the things they always ask is how much pressure you want.
My thought is I want all the pressure. I want to feel like something happened once I leave. It is the same with walking out of a good haircut. You want to feel transformed in some way. Why would you spend your money on that, if not for some type of outcome you can see or feel?
I am the same way with impact play or even encounters and conversations with people. I want to feel that impact, see the bruises. I want to be transformed by the encounter.
Lisa Gray 