One of those aspects of Primal play in kink is the idea of the chase. I have a fantasy of being out in the woods and being hunted by someone. Many times you will see people identify as a prey or a predator. You have likely guessed correctly that I see myself as a prey. It is another part of my submissive side.
When I am getting to know someone, I also want to feel chased mentally. I want that type of effort. I want someone to toy with me a bit. My mind needs that puzzle to solve. It can be fun when the balance is just right.
So much of my kinky side is about that balance and I need the scales to tip in their favor. But I will get bored if I am always on the losing end.
Lisa Gray 