“She had given him pleasure, and nothing could please her more than that.” Picture Perfect Cowboy Tiffany Reisz
This is a quote pulled from one of my profiles. It really is one of the few things that encapsulates my submission and my thoughts about kink and BDSM.
This is the way I submit. I sometimes feel weird when people ask me what I am into. I can certainly list off a few things or you can look at my “fetish” list which is not a list of fetishes at all is it? It is just things that excite me and would excite me more if the people I am with are into them as well. None of these are requirements and for a long time I have felt that kink in general is not a requirement. I have lived a pretty vanilla life especially in my younger years. It has included some spicy elements, though.
I am coming into different thinking now as I learn more about myself and really reflect on my wants and needs. Power exchange or imbalance in and out of the bedroom is really important to me. I need that direction. I can be a partner, but I want someone to take the lead.
Feeling like I belong to someone and being used for their pleasure is so delicious to me. I want to see that pleasure. That is how I know I am loved.
Of course, when I am praised with degradation, I will be a huge, messy puddle.
Lisa Gray 