Being polyamorous means working on agency and disentangling yourself from codependent relationships. Being kinky and into power exchange means I like to be owned and possessed.
I find it interesting to have these two parts of me within my mind. I want to live my own life and be open to connections of all kinds, but sometimes I want nothing more than to have someone into me in such a way that they want to be possessive of me. This can come from words or subtle physical touches.
The perfect balance is having someone who knows when to possess me and when to set me free.
Lisa Gray 